online discourse anti-patterns

Motivation Diagnosis

Reducing someone's behavior or position to a character flaw or suspect motivation rather than engaging with what they're actually saying.

Why It's Unproductive

Psychoanalyzes intent instead of engaging with the actual practice or argument. Labels someone as "lazy," "biased," or "defensive" which makes them defensive and shuts down conversation. Even if the motivation guess is accurate, it doesn't address whether the position has merit. People often do this when they disagree but can't articulate why, so they attack character instead of engaging with substance.

The Better Move

Why It's Better

Focuses on the practice and its effects rather than presumed motivations. You can be skeptical about AI docs without claiming the person is lazy - maybe they're experimenting, maybe it works well for their use case, maybe they're wrong but trying in good faith.


Example

OP: "We started using Claude to generate API documentation and it's been a huge time-saver."

Antipattern reply: "engineer who was too lazy to write docs before now generates ai slop and continues not to write docs, news at 11"

Better: "I'm skeptical - AI-generated docs often miss the nuance of why design decisions were made. Do you find you're doing substantial editing?"